Did someone film me getting upset? Will I be youtube's newest star? I will have to sue and get it taken down. I have bought 120 dollars of food at the Mexican market and Aldis. My husband takes me to two places looking for a deal on his soda pop. The first place has no deal, he leaves, wanting a better one, something I did not agree with. The second one, he waits half an hour in line and walks out saying the line took too long and leaving his things on the counter unpurchased. I'm at the third pop related place waiting. I am annoyed beyond belief by then. Every one's partner has their quirks.
I argue wanting to take our groceries home for a few seconds and then shut my mouth, and he goes in the store. Being a control freak wife, only backfires, I resign myself but I am upset. He is due home to work on an internet project too that starts at a specific time. Next time I will make sure the stupid soda pop is bought first. I fear the frozen and refrigerator food going off. For some reason my northern state is as hot as August in the beginning of November. I wonder if we will even have a winter this year but I digress.
He takes a long time in this store too, I wait, and then talk to myself, it's semi-Aspie meltdown time. Full ones are when you cry. I'm not crying. I'm too tired to get my walker out of the trunk and go in the store and hide in the bathroom. I talk to myself and punch the plastic part of the car door, it is only ajar, and cuss. "%*^*+(^%% what is taking him so long? I hate his stupid pop and hope the blankety blank company goes out of business. and yell "Come on". This was a pretty food insecure month. I look up and notice this woman is sitting in her car, catty corner, has her phone out, with the stupid apple on it and it's pointed in my direction. "Oh holy crap!" I think and I immediately shut up. One thought is that I am in a decent dress and not too bagged out today. Legally I know I am in my rights to yell in my own car since I have not yelled at anyone or threatened anyone. I am not yelling at loud decibels either and realize how much could she hear within a closed car? Even punching the door was not hard enough to leave a bruise. I did open the door a few inches due to the heat but never got out. I was not screaming loud enough for anyone to send help or police. My interjections were here and there.
What do I do? I know going up to her to tell her to stop filming me will cause me more trouble. No one else noticed or saw me, people were walking in different areas and I was on the edge of the parking lot more. So I stay silent and get out my digital camera in my purse and start filming her filming me. It does not dissuade her which scares me even more. I only get a few seconds of video. She is staring right at me with her phone right below. The quality is crappy because my best camera needs new batteries and this is my older one. I don't own a smart phone. I got out later to check on the food we had purchased.
My husband says even if they put it up, somewhere legally I can do a cease and desist. I wish my temper wasn't so bad. But one reason I vent to myself was to keep from getting in a yelling match which my husband which I did manage to avoid. Be careful of narcissists with cameras.