tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post2043493909969819443..comments2024-03-24T16:53:02.846-07:00Comments on Five Hundred Pound Peep: The Never Ending Criticism of the Fat LadyFive Hundred Pound Peephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-55688123193379246602014-06-27T15:46:40.017-07:002014-06-27T15:46:40.017-07:00HI Lisette, maybe that statement was too harsh, I ...HI Lisette, maybe that statement was too harsh, I do have my good friends. I know I have to separate what is the natural stuff with Aspergers and what did THEY tell me. Thanks for your compliments. :) I agree it takes complete NC to clear out our heads. So much energy even in LC is used dealing with them even if the contact is rare. I agree they wanted someone to feel superior next to and built the wall to do so. I know it will be freeing dismantling the wall of their lies. Yes the projections are interesting and your father and sister telling you exactly what they are. I read what mine says about me as "truths" about herself. The last few emails were about how I was a LIAR. She stressed that theme to the extreme. Well I know who the liar is. It is a handy source of information. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-87133957854055725362014-06-27T13:00:29.206-07:002014-06-27T13:00:29.206-07:00Peep, I find it hard to believe you are "soci...Peep, I find it hard to believe you are "socially incompetent." You certainly don't come across that way online. You present as very strong and brave yet gentle and wise. Maybe that so-called social incompetence is part of your programming. I'm so happy for you that the de-programming is in full mode. It really does take complete NC from these mental manipulators to clear our heads. I hope you continue to demolish THEIR brick wall, and build yourself back-up. Remember, the wall is built on a foundation of lies of who the narcs NEED you to be, to make themselves feel superior. Also, almost everything that comes out of the narc's mouth is projections so it's about them, not you. They are WRONG and they know it, that's why they go to such great length to make you believe their lies. It's funny, recently I got a taste of what MN sister thinks about herself from the crap that N dad has ejected onto me. So far she/he has revealed she is paranoid, jealous and doesn't want me to have anything. Yup, those are the things he (my dad) has accused me of. I now find "projections" to be a handy source of information into the psychological mind-set and interior world of the narc. Lisettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00126679148325637594noreply@blogger.com