tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post3899695440388829608..comments2024-03-24T16:53:02.846-07:00Comments on Five Hundred Pound Peep: Validating Myself: Better Late then Never!Five Hundred Pound Peephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-4061482240866562062014-01-04T19:39:03.863-08:002014-01-04T19:39:03.863-08:00If anyone ever stole mine, I think they'd be v...If anyone ever stole mine, I think they'd be very very disappointed. LOL Think about how the bankers want to own everyone now, a score they give like they are the eternal teacher separating the good kids from the bad ones, the worthy from the unworthy. kind of an unfair system when jobs are not CHOSEN, they are basically "won" in a rotating Lotto system and one can be rendered absolutely destitute because the boss had a bad hair day in your average "work at will" or "right to work" state. The number means as much as the gambler's roulette wheel to me. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-76608134083343170212014-01-04T19:36:45.224-08:002014-01-04T19:36:45.224-08:00Thanks Lisette. :)
Yes we can close down the narc...Thanks Lisette. :)<br /><br />Yes we can close down the narc training of self-judgment and blame and at least go on to be our own friends and advocates. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-34002400975348532452014-01-04T16:03:36.624-08:002014-01-04T16:03:36.624-08:00"I was trained that if bad things happen to m..."I was trained that if bad things happen to me, that they are MY FAULT."<br /><br />"The court of the narcissists is closed!"<br /><br />Amen to that. Unfortunately we can not escape the narcissistic court of society. Read: lack of empathy and blame the victim mentality. I believe this is the point you're making, that we can at least close down the narc training of self judgment and blame that's within.<br /><br />Awesome post. Thank you.Lisettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00126679148325637594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-7009652062616469702014-01-03T11:51:41.372-08:002014-01-03T11:51:41.372-08:00I laugh when I see identity theft protection servi...I laugh when I see identity theft protection services advertised on television. If any one is stupid enough to steal mine then they deserve whatever they get. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-22962075145931275222014-01-03T11:49:04.266-08:002014-01-03T11:49:04.266-08:00The story is too long and sordid to go into withou...The story is too long and sordid to go into without hijacking your thread. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-50377337730481225782014-01-03T09:59:05.802-08:002014-01-03T09:59:05.802-08:00There definitely are more resources out there for ...There definitely are more resources out there for the daughters then the sons, but I bet it is just as damaging. So are you saying you were the secondary scapegoat? Some of these narcs have two. I see my brother as in that role. He was maligned often behind the scenes. In his case, the abuse was less but present. Mine still believes my mother has affection for him, how did you find out otherwise or what transpired? I am sorry you were blindsided by this. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-17573767445018513712014-01-03T09:45:31.318-08:002014-01-03T09:45:31.318-08:00wait that is a narc related topic--correction, onl...wait that is a narc related topic--correction, only narcs would conceive something like that. Modern day slambooks from junior high taken into adulthood. I don't believe in credit scores. Mine is probably ZERO anyhow. LOLFive Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-83377925804279081132014-01-03T09:44:42.978-08:002014-01-03T09:44:42.978-08:00Thanks Q.
Our society is growing nutty with this ...Thanks Q.<br /><br />Our society is growing nutty with this stuff. I have to post something soon, it is a non-fat or narcissistic related topic, but they are planning to dock people's credit scores based on who they are friends with via social websites. I am serious. Yes things are getting nuttier and nuttier out there. The narcs are holding the reigns now more then ever!Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-9833119008610627822014-01-01T18:50:48.516-08:002014-01-01T18:50:48.516-08:00l really like what you said here; Then add in the ...l really like what you said here; Then add in the fact I live in a society where everything that happens to a person in one's life is seen as a choice. I never chose bad lungs, infertility, severe obesity, or an infected leg. Our society is inherently narcissistic in it's winner take all and losers deserve what they get ethos. The King and Queen of the Mountains don't care about the suffering of anyone else!<br />You are so right. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-60388961659631715702014-01-01T16:20:30.275-08:002014-01-01T16:20:30.275-08:00It's not much better being the son of a malign...It's not much better being the son of a malignant narcissist. It's just a different twist. My sister was the scapegoat and I was the scapegoat of last resort. I was so steeped in the illusion of my mother possessing a modicum of affection for me that finding out I was held in less regard by her than a household pest really blind sided me. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com