tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post5975122111538563492..comments2024-03-24T16:53:02.846-07:00Comments on Five Hundred Pound Peep: Stay away from Narcissists especially if you are FAT!Five Hundred Pound Peephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-87228328866999399882013-07-24T11:16:12.679-07:002013-07-24T11:16:12.679-07:00Hi Anon, I am sorry you have a family that is like...Hi Anon, I am sorry you have a family that is like this too. I think there are narcissist dominant families and mine is definitely one. Sorry you are dealing with one that steals, lies, tries to destroy relationships and more. I was diagnosed with PTSD before, from childhood AND well see the article I posted today. You are right these kind of people only care about appearances. Before I went no contact, I noticed my mother schmoozing up to all the THIN and ""BEAUTIFUL people of the family. It was so noticeable and differences in how everyone is treated. I wonder sometimes about the affect of STRESS on OBESITY, have written about it here, I even had my huge weight gain while under extreme stress-job and poverty, but what affects are made on people who grow up in a family that rejects them to their core, where they can't even have any love, support or all those human beings need? They say trauma affects health. I wonder about fat people having PTSD or there being CORTISOL effects or a breakdown of the endocrine system. I certainly always have theorized about this given my own life. I am still NC. By the way, I never heard from any of them again, and do not really expect to. This proved to me they did not care. if your daughter, sister, etc, was walking away, you'd think there'd be a letter of somesort [well I got cussed out once and told off in one short one at the start] saying "What's wrong?". I gave up knowing I was wasting time on people who never really would be there for me and especially as my health has entered a danger zone, I had no choice but to get away from these people for my sanity and wellbeing. I don't even care if one day they find this blog, and read what I thought of all of them. LOLFive Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-17283168955493989272013-07-24T09:41:49.247-07:002013-07-24T09:41:49.247-07:00Boy oh boy, do I agree. My family is the exact sam...Boy oh boy, do I agree. My family is the exact same way. A lot of narcissists, and the cruelest one is not to be questioned, or you're in for severe punishment, especially if you're fat. Even while she steals, lies chronically, crazy-makes, tries to destroy relationships, etc. And they are all about appearances. Very little substance. I was the scapegoat too, the perennial outsider, the butt of jokes, rejected in my own family, as well in much of the outside world. It wouldn't surprise me if many fat people have PTSD. I wonder how these "normal"-sized people would react if treated so shabby.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com