tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post7230812912603147476..comments2024-03-24T16:53:02.846-07:00Comments on Five Hundred Pound Peep: Very Dangerous NarcissismFive Hundred Pound Peephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-3540646372574973012015-03-11T09:19:29.684-07:002015-03-11T09:19:29.684-07:00Yes these are definitely dangerous people smakinto... Yes these are definitely dangerous people smakintosh. that is a great verse thanks for sharing. Yes Paul was warning even of the wolves in the pulpit. God sent me free from their false fronts. To the world, they are the ones who look like they have it "all together", they are elevated in this world, respectful, with plenty of money, mind make a show of going to Catholic church, look 'how holy' we are. Yes they can charm people back into the pit and smile and set you up for new abuse. I know these types know how to manipulate, some like the guy you are dealing with can even use need while I have the rich narcs who in years past did the false generosity thing which always got thrown in my face later. The very day I went NC, my mother offered me a new "used" car. It was one of her cars. She knows I live petrified of being on the bus--remember I don't walk well. I knew it was so she could tell others, "Look I tried to help her" even as I walked out the door. It was all about elevating herself. It was the literal trying to buy me. It was like "come get this car now before the offer expires".<br /><br /> So some use need and the rich ones use that on your needs. I felt like I needed a shower too. I agree the Holy Spirit will protect you and me. I pray for God's protection everyday.<br /><br />By the way, your latest videos great stuff. I rewatched the Narcs Bewitch Entire families, mind boggling and so so true. I plan to post that one and another one on here later! God bless you for your work too Smakintosh. That one helped me. I love seeing the direct scriptures warning of these wicked people. <br />Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-64537769076910061192015-03-09T10:34:42.914-07:002015-03-09T10:34:42.914-07:00I need to remind myself, and I need reminders from...I need to remind myself, and I need reminders from others, every day of the world, that these people are dangerous. Narcissism Survivor's message brings to mind this verse (hope you don't mind me always sharing bible with you :-) - "For there are many, of whom I have often told you and now tell you even with tears, who walk (live) as enemies of the cross of Christ (the Anointed One). They are doomed and their fate is eternal misery (perdition); their god is their stomach (their appetites, their sensuality) and they glory in their shame, siding with earthly things and being of their party." Phil 3:18, 19. The KJV reads that Paul was weeping as he attempted to warn this body of believers of the danger they faced. So why do I need to remind myself of this every day? And why is it I can't read my bible anymore without verses like Philippians 3:18, 19 jumping out of the page at me? I think it's because it's SO EASY for me to get sucked back into their labyrinth. Those covert, nice, polite, child-like, "christian", sophisticated, well to do, popular, polished, attractive looking and politically correct wolves are the worst. Like the serpent in the garden, some of these sociopaths are truly able to charm you right back into their black pit. There is a certain narc, an older man who looks like Santa Clause, I deliberately stay away from, because that old witch will lure me back into thinking he's so wonderful, yet poor and needy (the pity play) every time...until I leave his abode feeling like I need a shower for the next two weeks. Ugh. Thank you for sharing this reminder. Oh, and I want to let you know Peep that no weapon formed against you will prosper. You are doing the work of the Holy Spirit. I am telling you right now, He will guard and protect you. smakintoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11643706541390923318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-26900289490722690312015-03-06T19:32:38.463-08:002015-03-06T19:32:38.463-08:00Thanks Anon. Yeah 100 years ago, we may have been ...Thanks Anon. Yeah 100 years ago, we may have been gotten buried in the backyard or in my case due to the Aspergers chained in the attic or back shed. I am glad you got away from your psycho father. That had to be scary with all the guns in the house. :( Yes I hope none of us end up in any headlines!Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-3145054961982566122015-03-06T19:30:42.054-08:002015-03-06T19:30:42.054-08:00Benadryl was my pal during family visits. I can...Benadryl was my pal during family visits. I can't take it now because I'm on a drug that contradicts it so I understand taking the meds that take away feelings. I always took a couple Benadryls to deal with my family. I was zoned out from the Benadryl. It took the edge off. Later I would take Bentyls [big time IBS drug]. Always got IBS around them but this drug put me on a cloud and actually worked the best.<br /><br />I'm on a kidney medication that contradicts both so it's good I'm NC for that reason now. I only took all these medications as needed but around family would need them. Good thing I don't drink, I probably would have drank half a bottle of whiskey on the way to family visits. LOL. I understand about the baited "helpful" advice. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-62720457815036734342015-03-06T18:54:31.211-08:002015-03-06T18:54:31.211-08:00I hear you Peep. I always felt that if I had been ...I hear you Peep. I always felt that if I had been born a hundred years ago, I would've ended up one of those unfortunate souls that used to get buried in the backyard, reported 'runned off a drinkin', then gloated over by my psycho father. About a year after going no contact his heart began to fail him. I'm so thankful I cut them off when I did. There's never a more dangerous animal than a psychopath who's about to have nothing left to lose. I think of the many loaded guns he keeps in his house and shudder. Cornered evil produces headlines. Hope none of us end up in one! Stay strong. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-83373925071852302592015-03-06T18:04:16.641-08:002015-03-06T18:04:16.641-08:00I get lit into as well, when we were alone togethe...I get lit into as well, when we were alone together. But she makes it sound like helpful advice. After she would leave I would have to up the anxiety drugs. Sometimes I didn't remember what she did but I was "sicker" after her visits and would have to up the drugs. <br /><br />Those pills were dangerous too,as they took away my feelings, and I had less ability to defend myself around bullies.<br /><br />Now, NC and no pills.<br /><br />This is great advice, they are dangerous.<br />Joan Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07775873193806083833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-22206335933210205062015-03-06T13:03:31.832-08:002015-03-06T13:03:31.832-08:00In my case, mine knows I figured her out years ago...In my case, mine knows I figured her out years ago. She would keep the façade on when others were around, it was when I was alone that the veil would slip. I and my husband made a rule in 2008, I never was to be left alone with her, in the house after we were visiting one day and he went to a specialist apt in her town [that is where his specialist was from our then small rural town 80 miles away] and she lit into me telling me I had nothing to show for my life. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-29703943543509138682015-03-06T10:36:09.234-08:002015-03-06T10:36:09.234-08:00I was just thinking last night to never let them k...I was just thinking last night to never let them know you have figured them out. Once they know that you know them for what they are they have nothing to gain by acting normal around you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com