tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post7755007198857489585..comments2024-03-24T16:53:02.846-07:00Comments on Five Hundred Pound Peep: The Aunt That Loved MeFive Hundred Pound Peephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-75821257186132320602014-02-02T10:56:10.868-08:002014-02-02T10:56:10.868-08:00I don't think my family wanted to take my moth...I don't think my family wanted to take my mother on. It was much easier to put a kid between her and them to buy them time. My mother didn't want me or my sister either. She just needed us as props to make her look like a doting mother. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-65003222782725884452014-02-01T15:10:48.614-08:002014-02-01T15:10:48.614-08:00I am sorry your aunt wasn't around to help you...I am sorry your aunt wasn't around to help you. This aunt was long distance for me most of my life but I found myself wishing she had listened more when I asked about living with her. There are family members who admitted I was seriously emotionally abused but never lifted a finger about it, I am not sure why. I even think the Narcs would have been happy to have been free of me at a certain age. Up to when I was around age 21, they were freely admitting my mother had serious problems, but then she got money and years of smear campaigns took their tolls [while I was away living life in my urban setting, and then small town and here] and I was the absent one. Not via any fault of my own, but it gave her far more of a place to manipulate and get the others to see me as a problem. No one has ever stood up to my mother on my behalf in a full way. I was telling several of these relatives what was going on. My brother did twice, but even there, she had a way of getting him to think I was the one I was the trouble-maker who simply wouldn't get in line. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-14272249949297074252014-01-31T15:14:26.525-08:002014-01-31T15:14:26.525-08:00I had an aunt I thought was the coolest growing up...I had an aunt I thought was the coolest growing up. Now I would like to talk to her and ask her why she nor anyone else got us away from that monster of a mother. They were great about wagging their tongues about her but when it came down to putting a muzzle on her they were never around. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-72670655941265420552014-01-29T07:16:03.772-08:002014-01-29T07:16:03.772-08:00Weird how the neighbor laid it on you kids going b...Weird how the neighbor laid it on you kids going bad instead of on the sins of your mother. Sounds like PROJECTION when she used the neighbors words against you. With narcs, they can be evil as the devil, but they will make sure to label plenty of scapegoats evil to take the heat off themselves. Yes I am sure it did fly right over her head. The neighbor probably was telling her What kind of moral example are you showing your children, they will end up in prison not knowing right or wrong, but she decided to deflect any blame or fault. That is how they all work. It's sad I am so familiar with how that works.Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-37747625843249950552014-01-27T13:13:27.612-08:002014-01-27T13:13:27.612-08:00When my sister and I were young a neighbor told my...When my sister and I were young a neighbor told my mother that we were destined to go to prison because of the crap my mother had going on at the house during the time my father was at work.(basically a parade of men that were not our father coming in and having their way with her) and she spent the rest of our lives telling us how even at that young age our neighbor could tell we were no good and would never amount to anything. It flew right over her head that the neighbor was talking trash about her and not us. I hope that is relevant to the conversation. I just pounded it out and that's how it ended up. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com