tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post8876946448870649669..comments2024-03-24T16:53:02.846-07:00Comments on Five Hundred Pound Peep: Chubby Chasers Give Me the Willies!Five Hundred Pound Peephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-86978578189901249272016-01-31T07:59:18.526-08:002016-01-31T07:59:18.526-08:00I found the fat admirers gross when I ran into the...I found the fat admirers gross when I ran into them. The ones who were fetishes to be frank were perverts, but a guy who is attracted to a fat woman who loves her for her, is a whole other ballgame. Love and Lust are two different things and women want to be loved. Entering the world where you are seen as an object is definite recipe for disasters. Spiritually even before I became a Christian I found the fat admirers fetishes seriously lacking. I wonder how many are narcissists now, to be honest. I had a few leer after me, and I was very huge at a young age, when I went to size acceptance groups. Thanks for your kind comments. Some got upset over this article. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-63695178063742728302016-01-31T07:52:05.107-08:002016-01-31T07:52:05.107-08:00Just read this (I know its an old one) Very intere...Just read this (I know its an old one) Very interesting. I am a large woman and recently began watching videos online by fat admirers, explaining their desires for fat women. However, I also found one of them to be rude towards me and he also said some very sexual things about thin women! That is contradictory and shows a tendency to just lust after women in general. It is about how big women make them feel, and not about the woman as and individual. Glad I read your article; I can relate to it. Fat women don't want to be put down and hated but that doesn't mean that going over the top and sexualizing fat is good either. Fat should just be a neutral term and only one aspect of the person. Thanks for writing this. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-84302534673288648812012-11-21T15:12:17.722-08:002012-11-21T15:12:17.722-08:00I'm glad you escaped that kind of lust-driven ...I'm glad you escaped that kind of lust-driven environment. I can't claim to know what it's like to be surrounded by people, pressuring me to give in to lust, but like many men, I know what it means to face that temptation. In a way, I guess you could say I escaped from the opposite side of this same trap.<br /><br />I've always found fat appearances to be a lure, ever since I was very little. For a while, I even thought this was the reason I'd never felt like dating anyone.<br /><br />Then I got into high school, and I met a few people who I thought were pretty, and I still couldn't stand the thought of a serious relationship with any of them. That got me thinking, and I'm glad it did, since it lead to perhaps my most important resolution for years; not to ever inflict myself on a woman unless I was sure I understood how to make a meaningful relationship work. It's an oath that I think more people should take. It's served me well.<br /><br />At first, I thought I was just a little different from everybody else; I felt like I was in a world where 95% of the population looked bland, and another 4+% wanted to. However, as I matured, I gradually realized that this conflict was not merely between my desires and the world, but between the different parts of my own human nature. No simple appearance would have been sufficient for me, because I wasn't just an animal, or a painting. I needed something deeper and richer than that, and I've still not found it in any person I've met thusfar.<br /><br />I think your friend's words about "broken people" strike home to me with some force, because I know how true they are in my case. I've been broken since the day I was born. I'm just glad (for my sake, and for the sake of everyone I know) that I realized it before it was too late. It's only when we know how broken we really are that we turn to the one mechanic who can actually do something about it.<br /><br />God love you.Tantum Ergo 2http://nameunderheaven.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com