tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post8907329543049640479..comments2024-03-24T16:53:02.846-07:00Comments on Five Hundred Pound Peep: Outcast from her familyFive Hundred Pound Peephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-50571464809441261402023-08-15T22:58:33.436-07:002023-08-15T22:58:33.436-07:00Marissa's claims of having been raped n tellin...Marissa's claims of having been raped n telling them did not ring true to me at all but then again she could have presented differently bc of all the prostitution since then. Why don't see why they would deny it n not have done anything clearly this does happen so who knows. Some of her anger at the mother seemed disproportionate considering this is not only not their biological child but the situation involving Marissas biological parents. Im sure she wasn't sure what to do at times. But I do think one of the four of them should have done more in past 3 years to get her help,go to family counseling etc. I would sayvthis even if she were 32 but especially only 22. I think the mother likely had best intentions but perhaps had more resentment towards Marissa when she rebeled as a teen bc the other 2 didn't. I don't think she prepared for feelings that would arise in Marissa as she became a teen based on her biological family trauma n not having them in her life. Yes they gave her a better life but that doesn't wipe all those feelings away. Then the mother likely became indignant thinking "after all ive done for you!" N the sisters of course took the mothers side.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-43211073079631430242015-03-01T11:54:14.675-08:002015-03-01T11:54:14.675-08:00Thanks Smakintosh :)Thanks Smakintosh :)Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-81057899178087861552015-03-01T11:43:47.423-08:002015-03-01T11:43:47.423-08:00Have I told you lately I thank God for you and you...Have I told you lately I thank God for you and your ministry? Well, I do.....thank you.....smakintoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11643706541390923318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-844412376930603722015-03-01T07:01:56.828-08:002015-03-01T07:01:56.828-08:00Hi Smakintosh, oh I understand not wanting to watc...Hi Smakintosh, oh I understand not wanting to watch too long. I am not surprised hearing about the 9 year old boy. I have seen Dr. Phil take the side of way too many abusive parents, while degrading the abused. Yeah that narc. dad got even more narc supply playing a phony repentant boy. Oh I hate when these abusers claim that they abuse because they love someone. that is sick.<br /><br />I feel sorry for that little boy that is so awful. Of course how many therapists and counselors now do this to the children, telling them to make nice with abusers? They even tell adults to go and reconcile.<br /><br />I agree Lord have mercy on this society.<br /><br />I am sad to hear you went through the same thing being a good student and then having rough years. I know if I hadn't been so Aspie and extremely socially awkward, that is probably the path I would have been on. Many do give up knowing nothing is good enough for the narc parents. I sometimes sigh and think I would have been better off if the world didn't seem to join them in beating me down after I escaped. This is the kind of thing those types do to people like Marissa. Dr. Phil I think more and more is a narcissist so he bonds with the narcs and sociopaths while ignoring and invalidating the true victims. I still think of those sisters of Marissa, one seems the spiritual twin of my sister, it was so overwhelming. I am glad you survived all those years smakintosh and came out of that all. That is a path many of these narc parents put young people on. Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-55581256830675386002015-02-27T20:53:40.108-08:002015-02-27T20:53:40.108-08:00I was able to watch the show in its entirety on Yo...I was able to watch the show in its entirety on You Tube. Couldn't make it to the end as I have enough stomach issues and really don't need "Dr" Phil to aggravate my gut. I watched a rerun of this quack yesterday in which a 9 year old boy wrote the show seeking help from his abusive parents. And yes, they were emotionally and physically abusive to this kid - I ask you to take my word for it. Anyway, at one point Phil ended up putting his hands gently on dads shoulders, encouraging him, in the softest, most compassionate tones, to apologize to his scapegoat son. Which, of course, he did. Dad told the boy he treated him like shit only because he loved him, and wanted better for him than what he was able to do with his own life. Phil nodded approvingly, of course. This was done backstage. I did not witness a peep of compassion or validation from Phil toward the 9 year old victim. He saved that for the abuser. After this happened, Phil and abuser dad walk to the stage, leaving son behind in the "green room", or whatever they call it. Phil continued heaping encouragement and validation on this dad. Every few minutes, the camera would pan back to the kid back in the green room. You could see the fear in his body language as he sat there slumped in his chair, face down, fidgeting and picking on the foot stool in front of him. My wife, much quieter than I, let out a howl of frustration and disgust at the scene. AND NOW I WATCH THIS! Lord have mercy on our society! I'll tell you what watching this video triggered in me. I was a straight A student up until the 9th grade. A little angel was I. But I had an epiphany of sorts after the 8th grade, on a subconscious level more than conscious, that no matter what I did, or what I achieved, or how well I was accepted by those outside the "family", it would never be good enough for Nparents. When that realization came to fruition, it led to years of self-destructive behavior - just like Marissa. I have to wonder if that isn't what happened to Marissa. I mean, is it normal to go from a 4.0 GPA to drugs and prostitution seemingly overnight? I don't know what disgusts me more. Narc parents and siblings, or certain trained professionals on national television enabling them. smakintoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11643706541390923318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-64732622738964853872015-02-27T19:20:06.216-08:002015-02-27T19:20:06.216-08:00If one goes to drphil.com they see great portions ...If one goes to drphil.com they see great portions of each show...<br /><br /><br /><br />Five Hundred Pound Peephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05862707335431442713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-650289478442133391.post-36835437391305695502015-02-27T03:46:16.613-08:002015-02-27T03:46:16.613-08:00Interesting. How can I watch the whole show? -- ...Interesting. How can I watch the whole show? -- LOAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com