have visit with N mother and my 3 out of 4 grown sons who live with her, I am the scapegoat, i miss them so much, but am sick when i do see them. please any advice?
Can you visit with them at another relative's house without her in the mix. Why do three of your grown sons live with your mother? Did she get control over them? Have them visit you at a restaurant, or elsewhere away from her.
I deactivated my facebook account and i have stopped contacting my family , I need a break from all of them, the abuse has just moved to another generation. so when my parents are done, my sons step in, and the ones that dont get involved just look the other way. And i live with a horrible Narsistic man, I have a job and i am hopeing to move away while iam still able
I understand needing a break. I can see me moving on even from the few I am in VLC with. They don't care about me. It's terrible they brainwashed your sons to treat you badly and I hope you can get away from the abusive man you are with. Have you turned to the local women's shelter. I am glad you have a job and hope it is one you can keep while disappearing to another town or neighborhood.
I hope so. I got a new phone 2 days ago. but checked my messages and theres one from my mom Saying Angie what ever it its, get over it and call me back and stop acting stupid, that what ever i did, thats enogh
Yeah they have no empathy and talk down to us "stop acting stupid", mine repeating over and over "I didn't do anything--you got that with "Whatever I did". Telling you to get over it is pretty rude too but then I got abused by 1 or 2 I opened up to, who told me to "get over it" as well. Which is why next time I move, I will tell people my family is dead and I was an only child and will discuss a deceased closed friend as the stand in for my "mother".
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Deletehave visit with N mother and my 3 out of 4 grown sons who live with her, I am the scapegoat, i miss them so much, but am sick when i do see them. please any advice?
ReplyDeleteCan you visit with them at another relative's house without her in the mix. Why do three of your grown sons live with your mother? Did she get control over them? Have them visit you at a restaurant, or elsewhere away from her.
DeleteThats so gorgeous. I love fall too.
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ReplyDeleteI deactivated my facebook account and i have stopped contacting my family , I need a break from all of them, the abuse has just moved to another generation. so when my parents are done, my sons step in, and the ones that dont get involved just look the other way. And i live with a horrible Narsistic man, I have a job and i am hopeing to move away while iam still able
ReplyDeleteI understand needing a break. I can see me moving on even from the few I am in VLC with. They don't care about me. It's terrible they brainwashed your sons to treat you badly and I hope you can get away from the abusive man you are with. Have you turned to the local women's shelter. I am glad you have a job and hope it is one you can keep while disappearing to another town or neighborhood.
DeleteI hope so. I got a new phone 2 days ago. but checked my messages and theres one from my mom Saying Angie what ever it its, get over it and call me back and stop acting stupid, that what ever i did, thats enogh
DeleteYeah they have no empathy and talk down to us "stop acting stupid", mine repeating over and over "I didn't do anything--you got that with "Whatever I did". Telling you to get over it is pretty rude too but then I got abused by 1 or 2 I opened up to, who told me to "get over it" as well. Which is why next time I move, I will tell people my family is dead and I was an only child and will discuss a deceased closed friend as the stand in for my "mother".
Deletewhat does VLC mean?
ReplyDeleteIt means Very Low Contact. The only contact I have with them is on a social website. Maybe one phone call a year with one of them.
DeleteThe Hardest time is at Night < when i am alone,
ReplyDeleteSorry you feel so alone. I had years where I was totally alone in the world. I know it's far from easy. Praying for you.
DeleteBEAUTIFUL PHOTOS, REALLY NICE! You may have stopped painting, but your photos are great. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Tara. Photos are easier, less messy :P I probably will paint soon again after comic is done.
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