Wednesday, June 1, 2016
Narcissism You Can't Change Third Parties
"Knock them out of your life" "They are not going to change, They aren't going to believe you"
He is right about the flying monkeys and the narcissist's allies are bad for us. I am glad he admits this is a tough stage and you have to let people go. I'm glad he brings up the trust issues too. It is a rough one. This no contact stuff can be multi-layered. I went NC with the main narcissists in June of 2013, and I walked away from the rest of the family recently--some in the last few months and a final few in the last couple of weeks including "Betsy" the family friend.
This video made me feel "less crazy" in having to unload so many people and walk away from them. Recently I have been very upset because the numbers hit 40 people, and I kept wondering if I was insane. These were all people my mother knows outside of a few of the narcissist project friendships. The concept of unconditional friendship too is an important reminder to me too. I got stuck with too many toxic people who treated me the same as my family like I had to prove myself to them.
"If they don't believe you they aren't worth your time, you deserve the peace of unconditional friendships".