Monday, June 6, 2016
The Smart Narcissists Keep Them Fooled
Wow on this video. As I have written my mother would win the advanced narcissism/sociopathy award. She is very good at being a narcissist. There's no decompensation or screw-ups. She developed a team of people she was very nice to who would always believe her. We have to know with narcissists many will treat some people they use as tools very nicely, they will not see the same person. Some narcissists are far higher functioning then others and do not get caught. Their evil is not seen by others. As this video states they have most people fooled and some are able to fool many people for a lifetime.
"Many victims want others to see what you see"
"The victims want others to run away from this evil person right along with you and tell you that you are right and you are wrong, it's this thinking that can keep you around for more and more abuse because you are unwilling to cut the ties because only if they can see what she is doing to me. This type of thinking, trust me, it's not going to happen."
This video is an important one in telling us to trust our guts, when dealing with narcissists who treat others very nicely and us badly. This is not done because they care about these people or anything but it is part of being a "lying manipulative abuser", they need to keep some people happy and on "their team". I stayed in the game way too long wanting others "to see what she is doing to me".