Tuesday, December 13, 2016

Sums Up Life on Facebook


Sarah's Scribbles

It's a constant "I love my family and my mother" fest on Facebook. Since I am almost a senior, I have the friends who had their "angelic saints" of mothers who have died. I don't begrudge them their loving mothers. Sometimes Facebook can be a nightmare for the ACON with all the "loving families" for the ACON.

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  1. OMFG. Really? No, REALLY???

    This blog is a CONSTANT refrain of 'poor meeee!', 'IIIIII have it sooo bad', 'feel sorry for meeee!'! Who is the narcissist? hmmmmm

    Seriously, get over yourself! WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS. ALL. OF. US.

    We just don't constantly whine about them, ruminate on them, mire ourselves in self pity or play the martyr.

    If you're so bloody unhappy/miserable, DO something about it! You wonder why you "can't make friends"?? Probably because you are a complete downer and COMPLAIN constantly! Lotta fun you must be.

    How's about being proactive? See a psychiatrist, a therapist, call a self help group, get on an antidepressant, hell - just quit playing the bloody victim!

    WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS

    (and you will not post this, I'm betting!) Honestly, used to read your blog a lot but enough already!

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    1. What a bitch you are queen spider!

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    2. that's the whole point - we all have problems. if you're so bloody unhappy/miserable with this blog then STOP READING IT - seriously, get over yourself! your comment is a constant refrain of only write what I want to read. GET. OVER. YOURSELF. also IMHO i don't think troll crap like this ever needs posting, unless you like giving us target practice, which is fine! :)

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    3. I don't always post all troll crap, some of them go so over the top, they help my arguments about narcissists and pod people who demand that everyone "be happy" or else. Basically this one definitely puts the "asshole" brigade of the world on full display. Can't they go find some brain dead 'be positive' blog to go read, one that will keep their brain in the state of lull and stupidity they desire so much? I agree they need to get over themselves. You know they help form the arguments a few posts ago, "Be happy ya ingrates!" Is a happy person posting piss-a-thons on an independent blog? Whoops they failed their own test.

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    4. Hey former fan or whatever you are,

      You made narcish comments that are examples of why Peep and other ACONs like me are complaining about narcs. It is obvious you are either a narc yourself or who have not been through abuses.

      Your harsh "advices" are hard to stomach based on abuses we went through. We did not "succeed" in the working world because there are many unwritten rules and "networking" stuff that tend to favor narcs or bullies.

      You don't get it? This page might not be for you. Peep has good friends and a loving husband. She does not need narcs and toxic people in her life. She has a soul and good hearts that narcs do not have and she is a Christian.

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    5. Thank you Boston jogger. I am glad to be done with narcs. We are standing against narcs like this who tell us what to say, think and feel. I have no regrets in that. Someone like this with their demands for fake smiles and "never complain" is someone who probably incapable of any real relationships or friendships

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  2. Poor malignant narc...I know it's really difficult being so bored, miserable & empty. You just need to find a place to spru your CRAP... What a premium pile of dung!

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    1. Yeah so bored and empty, they came to post their crap here. Maybe today was slow for shopping and screwing people over or something. Thanks Kittiestravel.

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    2. "Maybe today was slow for shopping and screwing people" LOLOLOL!!!

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  3. "Former reader" (me thinks) has had her sense of humor surgically removed. If your mother was a monster and took former friends of yours and treated them like angels flying too close to the ground and then you see them (the formerly spoken of angels) gushing over their own mothers on Facebook when they stood in the way of any possible reconciliation with you and your own mother for a small chance of tapping into your mothers estate it is nauseating to the point of spewing my lunch. "Former Reader" is just another narc telling some one to do as I say don't do as I do. Who is on who's blog spewing venom? Unless I have forgotten how to read she is over here when she could be bearing her soul on her own blog, Which will never happen because she has no soul of her own and it takes incentive and talent to pour your heart out for the world to see. I think that cartoon is so f'ing perfect and funny I may steal it and get the satisfaction of posting it on my own blog A satisfaction "Former Reader" will never know because she is too lazy and narcissistic-ally defended to even think of putting thoughts of her own out there because she has a pathological fear of the slightest chance of being rejected.
    So there pftpftpftpft neener neener boo boo
    I will beat you to the punch cuz you guys all argue the same way.
    I'm rubber you're glue
    What you say about me bounces off me and sticks to you.

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    1. Narcs always whine, "We all have problems", they never share their's because they don't want us to know their secrets of their frauds and lies or failed narc pursuits. Why should we care about someone's problems that obviously doesn't care about ours. I agree such types have no sense of humor. They would never do a blog showing their heart and soul because they have none. They sold them to the highest bidder long ago. They never say they are sorry to anyone and get a thrill out of just kicking people in the face. Yes it is hard to watch people who would never get it with their "normal" mothers. I don't begrudge most but the ones who act like we are all liars are just in another category. Narcs are cowards, and their whole entire life is showing a false face to the world. This is why they get pissed off beyond hell when someone is real, and dares to talk about anything real. Problem is they have exposed themselves anyway even in their sheer nastiness.

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  4. Not to worry: 5PP will never own up to her faults. Her purpose here is to wallow in self-pity. Each day she plays the victim; each day she bathes in pointless guilt. She would not recognize herself in a mirror. Leave a sensible comment & the only parts she mentions are self-serving. Fortunately, she has no power. She has a voice but no dignity; she has a presence but no life.

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    1. Oh you mean I can seek more self fulfillment and empowerment trolling blogs? Oh you've woken me up! I will repent now of my self-pity and use you as a example of how to get a life and power! The internet better watch out!

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    2. This troll is obviously not a mother. I would have ran away if I ever had a mother like that. Indeed, I had a malignant adopted narc mother who said somewhat similar things when I was eight years old, the year I moved in with her from a loving foster parent who wanted to adopt me. I ran away from home multiple times that police officer came into scenes and I was in three local newspapers.
      Remember King Solomon in the biblical day had to make a decision who was a mother of a living child after one mother lost a child.
      1 Kings 3:16-28King James Version (KJV)
      16 Then came there two women, that were harlots, unto the king, and stood before him.
      17 And the one woman said, O my lord, I and this woman dwell in one house; and I was delivered of a child with her in the house.
      18 And it came to pass the third day after that I was delivered, that this woman was delivered also: and we were together; there was no stranger with us in the house, save we two in the house.
      19 And this woman's child died in the night; because she overlaid it.
      20 And she arose at midnight, and took my son from beside me, while thine handmaid slept, and laid it in her bosom, and laid her dead child in my bosom.
      21 And when I rose in the morning to give my child suck, behold, it was dead: but when I had considered it in the morning, behold, it was not my son, which I did bear.
      22 And the other woman said, Nay; but the living is my son, and the dead is thy son. And this said, No; but the dead is thy son, and the living is my son. Thus they spake before the king.
      23 Then said the king, The one saith, This is my son that liveth, and thy son is the dead: and the other saith, Nay; but thy son is the dead, and my son is the living.
      24 And the king said, Bring me a sword. And they brought a sword before the king.
      25 And the king said, Divide the living child in two, and give half to the one, and half to the other.
      26 Then spake the woman whose the living child was unto the king, for her bowels yearned upon her son, and she said, O my lord, give her the living child, and in no wise slay it. But the other said, Let it be neither mine nor thine, but divide it.
      27 Then the king answered and said, Give her the living child, and in no wise slay it: she is the mother thereof.
      28 And all Israel heard of the judgment which the king had judged; and they feared the king: for they saw that the wisdom of God was in him, to do judgment.

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    3. So sorry you went through that anon. I can see why you ran away multiple times. That is a good verse even to show narcissistic mothers, they would not have any love for a child, the king knew which one would be the "real mother". In many ways no malignant narcissist is ever a "real mother".

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  5. "I may steal it and get the satisfaction of posting it on my own blog A satisfaction "Former Reader" will never know because she is too lazy and narcissistic-ally defended.."

    Holy shit. You're totally serious, aren't you? L.O.L. You might want to readust your 'satisfaction level' if posting self-pitying cartoons on a personal blog that no one reads gives you *satisfaction*. Just saying. Try upping your goals. Wow.

    See, the thing is, all of you deflect and call anyone who even slightly challenges your way of thinking (doom and gloom, Eeyore-type mentality) with name calling, mostly "you're a narcissist!".

    But who's really the narcissist? You all run personal blogs that are almost 100% self absorbed! On and on and ON you write about allll your woes, always about how 'the man' has stuck it to you. It's never you fault is it?

    Take some bloody initiative! If EVERYONE ELSE is a narcissist, what does that say about YOU? That it's everyone else's fault?? Please. You're not *special* or different. Again, WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS.

    MAYBE it's YOU.

    Discussing this with you is like trying to have a discussion with kindergartners. Get out of your very narrow, limited view of life! There's tons of people out there who have it MUCH more difficult. Yet, you never hear THEM indulging in their own sufferings. They're too busy OVERCOMING them.

    Just TRY to change your attitude a bit. What's the worst that could happen??

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    1. Get a load of Tony Robbins here, just adjust your attitude and everything will be just honky dory. You're not smiling enough! Is that your answer to everything?

      Yeah I got a good and positive attitude today not putting up with people's BS like yourself. I don't let myself get shoved around by assholes. That's positive isn't it?

      These will be your last posts allowed up. I wanted people to see the narc in action. And you are narc, because narcs write things like the only suffering people worth anything are the ones who "win" and "overcome". Anyhow, I will write what I WANT to write, so piss off. Go back to backstabbing your office mates and flirting with your boss.

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  6. Dear "Ms. Sunshine" Troll,
    Of course you believe in "inclusivity!" Why yes of course you advocate from the comfort of your warm home for "the poor!" And certainly people with disabilities-well, tsk tsk, those poooorrrrr things-BUT! None of this is your problem, right? It's all fun, games and pseudo-concern Trolling-until shit gets real.
    How 'bout I make a visit to your place to spread some REAL Christmas joy, 'K? First, let's take the car away-you don't need this at your disposal all the time. Gas and maintenance means-next your fridge: I'll empty it except for a few condiments like ketchup. Now both of those are on "E." Hand over your wallet like a goody two shoes girl, thankyouverymuch and here's 3.00 and no debit or credit card. Yes, that's for the rest of the month. Oh, c'mon! You can live on that! There's some cans of generic tuna in the nearly but not quite empty cupboards. And where's your thermostat? Of course it's below 0 outside. It's winter ya fool. Now you get to experience freezing in the "comfort" of your own home. Let's get out the stack of bills just for this month alone-where would you like to portion out your 3.00? Of course there's a bunch of medical bills-don't you understand what "disability" means? Now I'm gonna hobble your legs-get down those stairs, baby cuz I'm right behind you with a cattle prod. And this is just the beginning-So we can be "all inclusive." Ya know, like those resorts? The places you love to go?

    You have spent your entire life in comfort, secure in your ignorance you'll never have to deal with any of this. But many of us do and have. And if push comes to shove you can always hit up your family for "help." You contribute to various public venues such as the NYT Neediest Cases-"see how generous I am!"-but you never see the most needy right under your own nose in your own community. You can attack another human being with real challenges while you bask in the smug assurance that'll never be you. Heh heh. No one ever does. Do you really think this is a life anyone else would choose?

    It is the height of obnoxious to tell someone else how to run THEIR life never mind THEIR Blog. Apparently your tiny brain fails to comprehend there is a Delete key on that keyboard right in front of you. See it? There's your power to erase the realities you don't like. Just like you erase the realities confronting you in real life with your aggressive blame the victim shit. There's some "proactive" just for you.

    Challenges don't shape Character so much as reveal it. Apparently you have none.
    TW

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    1. Thank you TW. Some today are really into censorship telling people what to do, think and to "write" about. That's a narc technique too trying to silence people and acting like they know it all. She's a shining example. I suspect this is a "relative" too, because I don't see some random jerk making it this personal though it is possible, some narc just got "bored".

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  7. Former Fan, you're just as stupid as my NGC younger brother who accused ME of being the narcissist because MY blog was all about MEEEEEE!
    Guess what dumb ass? In case you didn't notice this IS PEEP'S blog. This IS PEEP'S safe place to vent and seek support from FRIENDS who have a;so suffered at the hands of "beloved" family members.
    Of course this blog IS all about PEEP'S life, so as I said to my brother "Write your own blog dumb ass!"
    Now crawl back under your rock and enjoy a cold damp Christmas.

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    1. Hi Mulderfan thanks, yeah I remember when you wrote about that. Well the narcs want us silenced, they don't want outed. This is why they get so pissed of at blogs that speak honestly of their exploits. Their biggest fear is exposure. Yes this is MY BLOG where I can post anything I please and speak with my friends who have gone through what I have. Such types would never write their own blog, that actually would take having a soul and a brain.

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    2. Ms Sunshine. I have been trying a million different ways to say this
      when I only need one.
      Fuck you.

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  8. Hi Peep. What incredibly supportive and beautiful friends you have here supporting you!!!! (Sorry, 'former fan', in case you're confused, I don't mean you. lol) Peep, you know you did "DO something about it" by starting a blog and writing here, touching a lot of lives. There are hundreds of positive adjectives to describe you and what you have to offer the world, that only a steaming POS, a "complete downer" wouldn't be able to see that. You do so much and have so much to give in spite of your many hardships. You're a saint! And this Ms/Mr Putrid Pile's psychotic delusions of superiority explains perfectly their own lack of friends and the need to exploit, harass, and stink up the community you've created here. Sheesh. I mean, only a vicious freak would stop by and take a nasty verbal sledgehammer to an intimate gathering of people who generate warmth and empathy. I like the cartoon, btw.

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    1. I agree I did do something about it and started a blog. Thanks RazedbyPD. Yeah the naysayers and trolls put me down for this blog but I don't regret it at all. The narcs always have to act like they are superior, always putting people and their efforts down while they produce nothing but hot air. Thanks for your kind words.

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  9. Ms Sunshine how many early graves did my mother have to be responsible for, for me to graduate beyond slightly challenged? Does the guy she robbed and murdered and left for dead rank higher than driving my father to suicide? Does my fathers suicide carry more weight than my step father who was having convulsions where she let him lay unattended until the next morning and he had died like a dog during the night. THEN called an ambulance to get him help. TELL ME! I REALLY WANT TO KNOW!

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    1. A malignant narc dug six to ten graves. My malignant narc dug six so far (her sister, my adopted brother, my loving foster mother and father, and maybe her parents). I think your malignant narc dug more makeshift graves with a shovel after she murdered somebody. :0

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    2. Someone like this would be only a defender of the evil, and would tell you, "Be positive" Q! Dealing with reality is not the forte of narcs, they sell their delusional crap. Anyone talking about the realities of life like poverty or illness or evil abusers is just a "Eyore", I guess they are like "Tigger" bouncing around saying look at me look at me look at me while the hundred acres woods is on fire. People do seem to die pretty fast around malignant narcs. Even if they aren't overt murderers like your mother who got caught to the point she was in the courtroom many are soul murderers and people all die young around them. They suck everyone's life energy out. Looks like second anon, people dropped dead young around your mother too, including those younger then her.

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  10. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5Fgp-KihIA

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    1. double LOL. I wonder why some people think that telling someone "change your attitude" is such life changing advice. Some of us aren't interested in their lying lives. Someone trolling a message board to tell person they have no life and no precense and personal insults up the whazoo, has failed the unicorn, rainbows, pollyanna and perkiness test already.

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  11. “"I may steal it and get the satisfaction of posting it on my own blog A satisfaction "Former Reader" will never know because she is too lazy and narcissistic-ally defended.."

    Holy shit. You're totally serious, aren't you? L.O.L. You might want to readust your 'satisfaction level' if posting self-pitying cartoons on a personal blog that no one reads gives you *satisfaction*. Just saying. Try upping your goals. Wow.”
    This is a typical statement created by malignant narcs out of utter contempt and hatred toward another individual. The hatred could be stem from prejudicial attitudes and biases against a certain group of people such as those who have a disability, as in Peep’s case. A retort to “try upping your goals” to Peep is a harassment. It is an example of gaslighting abuse and invalidation. Narcs want to “see” people “to achieve and become successful”, but if a person achieve big such as graduating from an Ivy League university or becoming a millionaire, they get jealous. You don’t need that Troll in your life, Peep.


    “See, the thing is, all of you deflect and call anyone who even slightly challenges your way of thinking (doom and gloom, Eeyore-type mentality) with name calling, mostly "you're a narcissist!".
    But who's really the narcissist? You all run personal blogs that are almost 100% self absorbed! On and on and ON you write about allll your woes, always about how 'the man' has stuck it to you. It's never you fault is it?”
    YOU ARE A NARC! It is your fault that people like Peep and other people are miserable. It is your fault that people in your life could not stand you. It is your fault that you chose false Gods, false preachers, false Christianity to hear things from churches that tickle your ears. It is your fault that other people’s lives are ruined based on your decision, action, and choice. Here is one thing I learned from being in ACON community. It is your fault that people are not succeeding in life or keeping your job due to your bullying, abusing, slandering, backstabbing, and lying:




    “Take some bloody initiative! If EVERYONE ELSE is a narcissist, what does that say about YOU? That it's everyone else's fault?? Please. You're not *special* or different. Again, WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS.”
    JACK OFF AND DIE! TAKE YOUR MISERABLE WORTHLESS PROBLEMS AND SHOVE IT! Pee In your pants for all I care.

    “MAYBE it's YOU.”
    Nope, it is YOU, YOU, YOU and your fellow like-minded narcs who could commensurate with you!

    “Discussing this with you is like trying to have a discussion with kindergartners. Get out of your very narrow, limited view of life! There's tons of people out there who have it MUCH more difficult. Yet, you never hear THEM indulging in their own sufferings. They're too busy OVERCOMING them.”
    Discussing with you is like discussing with Dylan Root and Adolf Hitler! Discussing with is like discussing with Michael Meyers, Jason Voorhees, Freddy Krueger, and other psychopathic serial killers. Good riddance! I just praised the Lord that I never met a horrid person like you.

    “Just TRY to change your attitude a bit. What's the worst that could happen??”
    NO, NO, NO, NO, YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE! GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE AND GROW-UP! YOU HAD AN EASIER LIFE FOR BEING A NARC! OH, HO, HO, HO. WE DON’T NEED YOUR MONEY. WE KNOW THAT YOU ARE SCURRYING FOR MONEY OR ANYTHING THAT WOULD MAKE YOUR LIFE EASIER. YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE! BUH BYE, NARC. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR, YOU FILTHY DIRTY ANIMAL!

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    1. Narcs are always preaching on "goals" while they screw, cheat, lie and commit fraud to get their way to the top, then they turn around and do "look at me" statements that imply everyone is a loser who has not "achieved" what they have.
      Sure most like this see disabled people as "lazy", and "deserving" of their ill fortune. In their evil world only "winners" at "any cost" count.

      I agree it is gaslighting and invalidation to preach "up your goals" to a disabled person.

      Narcs will sabotage all goals. Even when I was younger and trying for art shows and more, there was no support. I invited my mother to one DIY art show I did, 10 years ago, but she blew it off. It just wasn't important to her. They will preach "success" while behind the scenes will do smears and give other pressures, like making a student with finals clean for hours instead of studying to make sure success is thwarted.
      Yes even if one attains some success they still abuse. There are some ACONs who manage with good health etc, and no contact to get good lives who do succeed. Many have attested that their narcs got very jealous and some have spoken of open sabotages they barely managed to escape.

      Narcs always love to tell us how perfect they are and this troll is no different. Her comments about "the man" tells us that she supports the oppressive system in America that has taken jobs from many and is installing politicians like Trump who is busy now handing it all to the Goldman Sachs bankers and other corrupt "leaders". They care nothing for the misery and oppression of the poor or anyone else who suffers injustice. The system works for them because they are corrupt too.
      Your disgust for this person is the same as my own. They have nothing to offer, just brain dead platitudes and the brainwashed narc focus on "win at all costs" "success" and "overcoming", they don't care about anyone else who has it more difficult, they kick a homeless person in the face, and shove a wheelchair dependent person out of their way, they would call both a "loser" and say the same to them, "Why weren't you busy OVERCOMING your problems"

      They have the same soul as Michael Meyers, Hitler and company. What is very interesting is how very alike they are. I think of other narc trolls who have posted here with their sickening slavish devotion to "success at all costs" and defense and love of the "system" and praise for the devil himself as they use their usual "animal" tools of putting people down and making themselves out to be everyone's judge.

      The less people I meet like this the better.

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  13. My mothers murder victims is an easy card to throw but I notice they never have a comeback for it. I had to google eyore. So is she telling us she is a jack ass?

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    1. Hey I don't mind you throwing it out there. In a way all the malignant narcs are murderers since dead bodies usually lie behind them even of those they just managed to soul murder and not get the gun or knife out on.

      With Eyore, at least I'm not cracked up Trigger, or bumbling Pooh.

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  14. I also may have to post my numbers and refute her claim that no one reads my blog.

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    1. Mine would poop a brick to see the numbers on this one.

      It is usually around 25,000 page views a month.
      ageviews today
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      Pageviews yesterday
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      Pageviews last month
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      I knock off around 1,000 for me meandering around and responding to comments etc.

      People are bored with Polly Anna crap anyway. They can watch Oprah and get that.


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