I know I'll break my no talk about the "family" rule on occasion. Sorry, today I can't help it. Was there ever one? I don't want to talk to any of them to ask. Either my theory was right that they would never have one citing "busyness" or my brother told my mother things I said and I was not invited. I was told it would be in the spring and the "spring" is almost over. Perhaps her Memorial Service got cancelled for a Trophy Child High School Graduation day?
It's like she was whisked away and forgotten about instantly. No one mourned her except maybe a couple cousins. I used to say to people, even as a child, people die in my family and are forgotten about never to be mentioned again. Remember narcissists only deal with the here and now. They "move on" instantly, nostalgia and mourning aren't their bag. For people who look only at status, I guess to them certain people don't deserve a funeral or any notice. There's baseball games and beer to drink. Banned from the family plots is bad enough, but no funeral or memorial service? I'll amend this one if it turns out I'm wrong. It's good I walked. It is what would happen to me if I had not walked. Dishonored even in death.
Aunt Scapegoat Has Died