My 18th wedding anniversary is this week. We have been together a total of 22 years as of April 29th. That is a long time. We are one of the longest married couples we know. Marriage does change with age, how can I say this, you grow together. We have had our good times and some major struggles too but as time went on, we grew closer and closer. The last few years we entered even a new period of closeness that is hard to describe how it all happened but it did. I love my husband very much.