Black Sheep: Does Your Family Hate You?
This will give it to a person direct so all doubt is removed, especially in the way the questions are worded.
"Negatively: No one has any interest in my being at the gathering, thought they talk about me as if I were not there, I am not included in the conversation. Only if I have done something catastrophically good or bad is the only time I am acknowledged and spend the holiday defending myself and viewpoints."
Here was my results: