Saturday, August 13, 2016

It Amuses Narcs to Deceive You



Sure they get their jollies. Some of us know what that smirk means when the narcs get their supply from hurting us. They know what they are doing and they enjoy it! So many want to coddle the Cluster Bs like they are hurt little souls who torture others out of inner pain. Nope, that's not it! They like hurting you. I know that's hard to accept and understand. Even admitting people like that exist in this world is tough, but they DO!

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  1. But if you even imply they are anything less than perfectly honest you will regret it. So they like it both ways. My ex and my mother both would tell you it wan't them if you had caught them doing something dishonest on video tape. I wish I had a dollar every time my ex wife told me to "prove it" when I would tell her I just saw her do something that I just watched her do.

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    1. Sure, they will make you regret it, mine would react with rage when I confronted them over lies. I heard a lot of lies from mine I didn't even say anything. She was seeing my nephews when they lived closer to me but no one would tell me where they lived or give me the number. So more years not seeing them and I'm a stranger. I heard "Prove it" so many times that one rings through my head.

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  2. Man O Man I have spent the day watching episodes of that true crime show called "Snapped"
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Snapped
    and compared to those people my mother and my ex wife are amateurs. On that show if you have something somebody wants they'll just blow your brains out and run you through a wood chipper and take it. At least when I walked away from those two I was left alive and breathing. Just barely but I was still alive and kicking.

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    1. Glad you lived through your ex and mother. I was watching this murder show yesterday called evil stepmothers and this one was a definite narc and sociopath and she took out her step children's step mother and even got the son to help her. That blew my mind. I didn't think much of the son being so led by the nose, he was 16 years old and it was a very disturbing show. yes there are even worse ones, enough to keep the homicide detectives busy.

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  3. After I went NC I fully expected to have a cop show up at my door telling me that my mother was trying to solicit someone to kill me. I mean really. Not hyperbole.

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    1. I had this whole talk with my husband, where I expounded on endless safety issues before going NC. I would think the hoovering would be over now. Not showing up to the funeral had to be a giant announcement I am done. Mine may even tell the rest of the family I am dead, if there is enough passage of time.

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  4. Dear Peeps and Friends, yeah I remember the little smirks. It's like they subtly got their cookies off in knowing about the bullying at school. Now years later, as a Christian, it would be very unChrist-like to tell them what I really think of them. So I just remain no- contact - and stay out of trouble.

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    1. Oh yeah I remember the smirks too. At school I would physically fight a few bullies but then that didn't work either, they'd get their friends in on the action and just out run me. I agree one can get into trouble. I want to stay out of court so I avoid bullies. :p

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