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"Will Anna Leave Josh Duggar? She Should."
You ever notice our society is so messed up, it seems every woman married to a celebrity does the "Stand By Your Man" crap to the point of insanity. Now Josh Duggar is a "C" level celebrity but seems like the rule has held.
Anna Duggar disgusts me now. All my sympathy is gone. She is a victim of a cult, and brainwashing but there's a line she has crossed and that line is that she won't even protect her own children. I find myself wondering if she may be as personality disordered and toxic as her husband. Maybe she is as debauched as he is.
Enablers can be just as much abusers as the original sociopaths and malignant narcs. Every child that was abused knows it wasn't just the abusers who betrayed us, but the enablers who stood by and watched. It only occurred to me years later, there were plenty of relatives standing around doing nothing or who even encouraged things as I got hit and had other abuses happen right in front of them. Enablers who help the sociopaths do their thing are as part of the evil as they are. They are complicit.
The fact she can even smile at this guy like this now even as they have been "homeless" for years living in the back yard shed of the Duggar family, and could now be going to jail for the most vile crimes known to man short of outright murder, makes her as disgusting as he is. He's smirking at her in the above video too. I understand people can fall under a sociopath's spell, and she definitely could be, but when children's well-being is on the line that's time to wake up.
She's moved from enabler status in my mind to PERP too, because she's kissing a would be pedophile's ass right in front of the world and doesn't give a damn about victims or even her own kids. Something is very wrong with her. Think about this she is in the court rooms with the creep as they read the charges and WHAT HE DID. Remember he watched the worse of the worse in that criminal world. How could anyone sit there and listen to that, and walk out smiling and holding hands?
Their children have been so betrayed even having these two immorals as parents. I hope they rebel as adults for their own sake. She is no mother. The system has failed in not taking these kids out of the home/shed. Maybe they have to wait until he is convicted, but they all definitely need interviewed and to be protected.
Their children may have the greater chance for escape since their grotesque father has already made them outcasts in the cult. Why stick around? I think when the chips fall, some of them when they are older will realize how Anna betrayed them. They will remember their mother choosing their loser father There's been a lot of outrage over Anna Duggar online, most people are horrified by her recent actions. What kind of cult tells you to stand by a would be pedophile? While many people did see her truthfully as a victim of a cult, she's definitely crossed a line here. How bad does it have to get before she will stand up for her children and herself?
Coming from a Christian family with a fair amount of sexual predators , i can tell you that denial is all . My mother is 86 and still refuses to admit what was done to me as a child . The whole tribe see me as a liar of the first order a wrong un as they term it . Sadly as my mothers ill health is forcing me into her web i keep running up against it , time after time . Lifes a bitch but to them christian denial is all , that and getting quoted bible verses at every turn
ReplyDeleteThat's horrible your mother won't believe you. Sadly too many mothers like that. Yes they call the abused liars too. They pull out all stops to protect the abusers too. No matter what they do, from domestic violence to sex abuse and worse, they will defend their golden children. Just look how the Duggar parents have allowed Josh to basically destroy their entire empire, wonder if this will wake any up. Yeah being called a liar is a betrayal built on top of betrayal. They defend the sexual predators. Feel bad this happened to you, it is very painful. The Christian world now is filled with so much abuse.
DeleteDear Kate, yep those wolves sure know how to sling scripture. Sad to say, most (hireling) preachers are quite aware of the mind gaming, but do nothing - heck no, it's the abusers who usually put more in the plate than their victims (who are lucky if they have $3.50 to spare).
DeleteSadly there's tons of wolves trying to keep people in control with religion. My religious beliefs are different. I think of the control matrix via religion, all churches aren't spared. A lot of this world is based on power, status and control, that's the simple matter of it, and people will commit plenty of evil to keep their leaders happy. Anna is basically throwing away her children to bootlick and submit, and it's disgusting.
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